(L95) In 20 Years I Will…

“The lifestyle I want 20 years from now”

In 20 years time (if we all survive on earth that much longer), I will be 37 years old. By this time, I will hope to have accomplished the majority of my goals (and maybe some dreams too)!

First and foremost, I would love to have a big family! This would mean as many kids as Carmine and I could comfortably afford, (no grandkids yet, but hopefully they wouldn’t be too far off in the distance). They will be raised in the outdoors, making forts and mud pies rather than downloading apps and begging for the latest trending toy. They will all be homeschooled, and our children will learn through true experience like we all should have!

To go along with our large and well functioning household, it would be a dream to carry out everyday life self-sustainably. (I’ve always lived on a farm in my heart!) We would have goats for milk and cheese (it is much healthier for humans than cow milk and/or cheese). Horses for riding and plowing fields. (Not only are they good work animals, but they are extremely therapeutic; knowing how to ride, care for and work with horses are fantastic skills to have.) I certainly wouldn’t complain if I was allowed to have a donkey or mule either! Chickens (and roosters) would certainly be a must; I’ve had them before and not only are they great for waking you up before your alarms do, but the eggs are delicious. There is a difference between meat chickens and egg chickens contrary to common knowledge, and it would be possible we could have meat chickens to sell to others. I just don’t think I would be able to eat an animal I raised, and I am not huge on meat anyways.

Last but not least, I hope that Carmine and I may have both achieved our career goals and fulfilled our callings. This would mean, most importantly, that we will have our own liberty based church. Carmines indisputable calling from God is to be a preacher, and I couldn’t be more proud of his persistent studies and growing relationship with The Lord. We have both grown so close to our Creator since we were born again in May of 2015 and I can’t even imagine the things that could happen within the next 20 years! As I am still unsure of my calling, I do know that it is either to bake, or to work with animals. I have always had a special relationship with animals, mostly dogs, and God has used them to touch and greatly affect my life since I was born. On the other hand however, I feel that I am being drawn to bake, and decorate. I am not quite sure of the significance of this yet, and only time will tell. I sure hope that 20 years is enough to find out! It would be beyond my wildest dreams to have a dog rescue animal rescue in general); a farm would make fantastic space for a dog sanctuary as well.

The one thing that I am sure of is that God will grant Carmine and I exactly what we need in this life, and that is all that I could ever ask for. Only time will tell quite what that means!


(L35) Becoming a Business Owner Vs. Being a Minimum-Wage ‘Lifer’

Would I rather start a small business or become a minimum-wage apprentice to a mentor? Why?

To me, the answer to this question is simple, actually obtaining the goal however is a whole other story. Personally, I would much rather start my own small business than become a minimum-wage apprentice to a mentor because owning a business means that you have the chance to make so much more money. It also means that becoming successful will make your voice heard, not only to your employees, but to the community you serve. A business is a legacy to be passed on whereas a menial job in which you never work your way up can flood your life with regret, and misery. Founding your own business means having the power and freedom to create something you love; something that makes you proud and others proud of you. It would be a dream come true to own my own business one day; I would be guaranteed work, and a successful businesses offers security that no minimum wage job ever could because a founder/owner is not easily replaced.
Now, don’t get me wrong; everybody has to start somewhere. A mentor is a great place for anybody to begin their journey to owning a small business, but I don’t believe it can offer the same rewards. If your goal is to become a manager, start under the best manager you can find and stay there! But if your goals lie elsewhere, don’t be afraid to get some training before hitting the world on your own either. You can always learn something from somebody else, no matter whether they’re above and below you on the work chain.